If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him, feel honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN
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I have been trying put a few things about love into words for the past few weeks....now I think tht i dont have to do that..Cos you hav put expressed my views on it by these sentences:-
Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN
thanks amigo!!
maybe i shud start reading ur blog for CAT practise. Good job dude
well...quite true...
IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN
i liked those words quite much....
pretty cool man.. but at 4 am in the morn, i think u shud b sleeping.
A veterans opinion i guess...u seemed to have felt both the joy and pain ..
I have always thought of love as intangible, and u have made a brilliant effort to put ur perspective on the same,I appreciate ur courage , keep blogging [:)]
But im not sure about that love leaving us part.. and im glad that u didnt go wrong ..
@ ranjith
:D...its american time i guess dude.. i cant imagine me up at 4 either..
@ sivaharsh..
whaa?? me..veteran??
i'm a rookie on this man.. :P
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.......very good!!!.....this post is the best of the lot!!keep up the good work!!
Well said da....!!! Love comes to those who believe in it... hope you will find one soon... :)
good post dude...!
though i don't agree with most of ur views on the phenomenon called 'love'... :)
Whoa, look who's blogging?!
Now I realize the underlying angst behind your snide comments the other day... ;-)
You write passably-well. Not bad at all for a beginner but there's always a LOT of room to improve...
Keep writing!
(I see you've done some aggressive 'blogvertizing' (<-pun) I suggest you to be a tad less flamboyant. Clicking your own ads will only ban you permanently from adsense!)
thanks.. i know that
Gosh! How can someone write so much abt love... Phew! Good work bro... Still, phew!
nannayittundu...
u have said all abt luv espeacily this line" u dont choose luv luv choose u"...
nannayittundu...
u have said all abt luv espeacily this line" u dont choose luv luv choose u"...
Love is overrated.
Sure I'm a hypocrite. Who isn't?
Anyway nice blog. Will keep visiting.
Btw "being nice" is the most fake thing ever. Words come glibly to anyone. What comes from the heart and the deeds that you do are what count.
get rid of de flashy stuff man.... blinds u without a secnd thought....b subtle
n word verification sux ....once again
typical alan response!!!
from the little bit that i have understood .....this guy can sure convert feelings in 2 words....gr8 work dude...spaari...
ur toooo good dear!!!..
"Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do."...
...i jz loved those words of urs..so very true..
The other side of a friend who I realized I knew very little of.Great thoughts and wonderful language, flowing into the inner recesses of heart and soul...Who knew u were a pro in love prescription
its simply superb da...wat all u rte in dis...its true...
IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN.... it means a lottt...
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